Menopause, in a layman’s vocabulary, stands for the cessation of menstrual cycles (periods, to be colloquial) for women. It signifies the end of the reproduction capacity of a woman’s body. It is a phenomenon that is largely ignored in the Indian society; a neglect that stems from an inherent discomfort with talking about sexuality and things related to it, lack of understanding or simply ignorant sexism which leads to oversimplification of the process and the possible care that it calls for. However, things are rarely simple in the changes pertaining to the body of women with respect to the ability to support life. Menopause is no exception.  

 

Contrary to general supposition, Menopause is a process rather than a brief, isolated episode. This can be a strenuous, long-drawn period, when maintaining a sense of balance becomes difficult. A woman’s body is thrown into a severe turmoil of hormonal confusion yet again, usually years after the last pregnancy, and at an age when energy, and recuperative ability is in a natural, general decline. This process becomes harder because of the loneliness it brings, because it is also usually an isolated phenomenon of each household, at a time. This leads to a dearth of much needed empathy, from family and friends.

 

Second Innings is an attempt to make the menopausal phase less of a lonely island. Just like puberty and pregnancy, Menopause is a different experience for every woman. It takes a toll on a woman's body and the often even on her closest relationships. Its unpredictability can wreck relationships or form stronger bonds. The odds of making it an easier phase depend upon one's knowledge and attitude towards it. It is imperative that family, particularly husbands and children, form a strong, informed support system free from stereotypical judgements.